Single Dad, you are not alone in this crazy world. Single Fatherhood is very commonplace now, almost as much as Single Motherhood. Every day Single Parents face the challenge of providing emotionally, spiritually, physically & financially for their precious children. Organization and time management skills are essential for the Single Parent household.
Our Mighty God, our Wonderful Counselor... The Prince of Peace is ALWAYS available, listening and speaking to us, providing for us, guiding us and loving us at all times. If it ever gets to be too much simply close your eyes, and breathe. Be renewed by His Holy Spirit... feel God moving through you, empowering you to handle the tasks set before you each day.
Your children love you unconditionally because you are Dad! You are actually the representation of God the Father to your kids... Of course, as humans we'll always fall short of the mark, and that is why we have been given GRACE. Talk to your kids about God often, reminding them of His Everlasting Love and Provision for them.
When you pray with or over your child, your example of a faith-filled dad is priceless. Your kids will grow up remembering that you leaned on, and trusted in, the God of the Universe and they will learn to do the same. Feed yourself through relaxation, Bible study, praise & worship, and doing things for yourself each week that you enjoy.
Surround yourself with other men who are fathers and single dads who can give you support and fellowship in recreation activities. There may be a Single Dad group at a local church or in your city/area. Do not isolate yourself or feel any shame in being a Single Dad. You are actually fathering your kids... when all of these deadbeats have simply abandoned and walked away from their own biological children. Feel proud and know that you CAN accomplish any thing that comes your way.
Struggling to make ends meet, especially in this present ecomonic condition, is rough for EVERYONE right now... single or otherwise. Find ways to cut corners in your family's monthly expenses. Single Parents are some of the most creative people on the planet when it comes to saving money.
Extra money can definitely be earned, even on just a part-time basis, with your computer. Every bit will add to your "bottom line" and net income each month. It is absolutely possible to learn new skills and find more time to spend with your family. Find out how to build Internet Income!
Psalm 3:
1) Lord, how are they increased that trouble me! many are they that rise up against me.
2) Many there be which say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah.
3) But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.
4) I cried unto the LORD with my voice, and he heard me out of his holy hill. Selah.
5) I laid me down and slept; I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.
6) I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people, that have set themselves against me round about.
7) Arise, O LORD; save me, O my God: for thou hast smitten all mine enemies upon the cheek bone; thou hast broken the teeth of the ungodly.
8) Salvation belongeth unto the LORD: thy blessing is upon thy people. Selah.
